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The Alabaster ChronicleThe Journal of the Alabaster Society
NUMBER ONE, AUTUMN/WINTER 1993 |
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The First Alabaster GatheringHadleigh, Suffolk - 21st April 1990It began with the idea of a small family gathering, to mark the reopening of the Hadleigh Guildhall, and ended with a weekend, based in Hadleigh, which was attended by 136 Alabasters and Alabaster descendants. When Beryl Neumann of New South Wales, my third cousin, (both of us descended from Charles Henry Alabaster) [1797-1861], suggested in a letter early 1988 that we should try to organise a family gathering in Hadleigh for Easter 1990, which was the target date for the completion of drastic refurbishment of the Guildhall owing to new fire regulations, I agreed that it was an excellent idea, and then promptly pushed the idea to the back of my mind. When Beryl wrote to me in the summer of 1989, giving details of her travel plans, I was driven to action. I contacted John Stammers Alabaster (Branch I) and Adrian Alabaster, (Branch IIA) both fellow researchers and distant cousins of mine, to pool our ideas. We drafted a letter which I sent during September 1989 to every Alabaster in the British telephone directories, Beryl Neumann did likewise in Australia, and another third cousin, Margaret Evans, (Branch IIA) did so in New Zealand. The letter was just a means to gauge the likely response if we did organise something. I did take the additional step of including a questionnaire with the letter - even if nobody was interested, I might gain a little more knowledge for my Alabaster One Name Study! The response was good. We sent out order forms to those who had expressed some interest. We had hoped for 20 to 30 people. It looked as if we were more likely to get 50! Eventually there were 136 people named Alabaster, descended from Alabasters or married to Alabasters, who met in the United Reform Church Hall, Hadleigh, on 21st April 1990. We had been pleased when we received replies which indicated that people were willing to travel from as far away as Yorkshire. On the day, we not only had family members from Yorkshire and Scotland, but from Australia and New Zealand too! Beryl Neumann from New South Wales, whose mother was an Alabaster, was naturally there, but so, too, was David Alabaster (William of Woodford Branch) from Canberra, who had altered his travel arrangements to the UK to coincide with the Gathering. Raewyn Alexander (nee Alabaster) from Atiamuri and Molly Duffy (nee Alabaster) from Dunedin were also there. They had travelled over together from New Zealand especially for the Gathering. Sharing the same maiden name, Raewyn and Molly have known each other for many years. Molly is descended from Reverend Charles Alabaster (1833-1865) (Branch IIC), born in London, who went to New Zealand and started one of the first preparatory schools in Christchurch. Raewyn is descended from Captain Daniel Alabaster (1836-1920) [Branch IV] born in the Gt Yarmouth area, who went to New Zealand in the mid 19th century as an explorer. Lake Alabaster in New Zealand is named after him. Raewyn and Molly have never been sure whether they were actually distantly related, but I was able to trace their common ancestor to John Alabaster, baptised 1624 in Hadleigh. He was the great grandson of Thomas whose brass is in the church and who was partly responsible for the return of the Guildhall to the town of Hadleigh after the Reformation. A great deal was packed into that day. The Mayor of Hadleigh opened the proceedings, then Mr W.A.B. Jones, historian of Hadleigh, gave an excellent talk on Hadleigh during the century and a half in which the Alabasters lived there. Everybody who attended was presented with a booklet, prepared by John Stammers Alabaster. This contained notes on "Some Notable Alabasters" about whom he and Adrian Alabaster were giving talks. These included Henry Alabaster of Siam, who was interpreter at the British Consulate, Bangkok, during the "King and I" era, Thomas Alabaster, a convict transported to Australia in 1819 for stealing, Dr William Alabaster, scholar and poet, Captain Daniel Alabaster, and Reverend Charles Alabaster. A newspaper reporter came to take notes and took a photograph of those present. Following a buffet lunch, there were guided tours of Hadleigh Church and The Guildhall organised by the good people of Hadleigh. In particular, Mr W.A. B. Jones, Mr Cyril Cook and Mrs Hilary Griffin. We had a dinner that evening, some at the Eight Bells, Hadleigh, whilst others were at The George. The next day, Sunday, the thirty or so of us who could make it split into two groups and made a tour of various parishes in Suffolk which have connections with past Alabasters. We were welcomed at Snape, Friston, and Saxmundham, where gravestones or memorial inscriptions remain to the Alabasters. At Friston we were given a talk about the church. then on to Framlingham Castle, where Dr William Alabaster was once imprisoned. Here, again, we were given a talk about the Castle's history. It had been a truly wonderful weekend. ******************************************
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| Thomas Alabaster -1 c 1522 - 18 Jan 1591/2 m Christian Warren -2 | |
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John Alabaster -3 c 1560 - 21 Apr 1637 m 04 Aug 1584 Boxford, Suffolk Mary Brond -4 | |
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Thomas Alabaster -5 m 19-6-1623 in Hadleigh Elizabeth Glanfield -6 | |
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| John Alabaster -7 c 1624 - Oct 1700 m. Elizabeth -8 | |
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| William Alabaster -9 m 26-11-1682 Ann Clarke -10 | |
John Alabaster -11 m Mary -12 | |
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| William Alabaster -13 c 17-11-1689 - m 10-04-1721 Sarah Steggell -14 | |
Benjamin Alabaster -15 6-1-1697 - 1784 m 31-3-1730 Susan Hewitt -16 | |
Robert Alabaster -17 c1682 - 1729 m 1713 Mary Stacey -18 | |
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| William Alabaster -19 c 1726 - 1768 m 07-02-1753 Martha Cockerell -20 | |
Robert Alabaster -21 c 1732 - 1796 m 26-11-1754 Ann Mison -22 | |
John Alabaster -23 c 1731 - 1799 m 11-11-1760 Mary Querry -24 | |
John Alabaster -25 c1723 - 1763 m 1747 Mary Jessope -26 | |
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| William of Woodford | Branch I | Branch IIA | Branch IIB | Branch IIC | Branch IIIA | Branch IIIB | Branch IV |
| William Alabaster
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John Alabaster -28 c 1762 - 1828 m 24 Mar 1792 Rayleigh, Essex Ann Burrows -29 |
Robert Alabaster -30 Feb 1757- 1821 m 10 Jul 1781 Bishopsgate, London Elizabeth Simpson -31 |
William Alabaster
-32 c1761 - 1836 |
Charles Alabaster -33 c1775 - 1820 m 06 Sep 1803 St Sepulchre`s London Mary Dearmer -34 |
John Alabaster -35 c1763 - m 23 Sep 1785 St Matthew`s Ipswich Deborah Hines -36 |
Joseph Alabaster -37 c1771 - m 17 Jul 1796 St George in East Ann Drew -38 |
Robert Alabaster -39 c1749 - 22 Jan 1826 m 06 Aug 1776 Kessingland, Suffolk Sarah Ward -40 |
Two Female AncestorsEach summer Kentwell Hall, a Tudor mansion in Long Melford, Suffolk, opens its doors to visitors and re-enacts a specific year from the Tudor period. Visitors are encouraged to join in this "complete lifestyle" by going dressed in the costume of the period. In 1988 -- the year 1588 was chosen to commemorate the defeat of the Spanish Armada -- I persuaded my daughter Mandy to accompany me to Kentwell Hall. not only dressed in costume but also attempting to adopt the personae of two of our ancestors who would have been living in Hadleigh, not far from Long Melford, during the sixteenth century. Accordingly, I undertook some detailed research on Christian Alabaster (nee Warren) and Mary Alabaster (nee Forth). It brought home to me that it is worth remembering that the females of the family are as much our ancestors as the males! These are the details Mandy and I took in our heads when we went to Kentwell on Saturday 2nd July 1988, in character. I (Laraine) was Christian Alabaster (nee Warren); Mandy was my daughter-in-law, Mary Alabaster (nee Brond).
The known facts about the Alabasters of Hadleigh, as they stand in 1588.Christian Alabaster, wife of Thomas Alabaster of Hadleigh, a clothier, is the daughter of John Warren of Newbourne (1) Suffolk, and Dorothy who was the daughter of Robert Forth Esq (1) of Hadleigh. Robert Forth, Christian's grandfather, was a very wealthy man. In 1568 he was the richest merchant in Suffolk and a strong puritan (2). Christian's sister, Agnes Warren, is married to Arthur Vesey (1) Her brother, Roger Warren dies during 1588 (1) Christian's husband, Thomas Alabaster, was an executor to the Will of William Forth dated 1553 (1), although probate was granted in 1559 (1), William was another son of Robert, so presumably Christian's mother's brother, Thomas Alabaster, is actually first mentioned in the surviving records of Hadleigh in 1557 when he was appointed as bailiff to the market (3). Christian, presumably, married Thomas Alabaster at the end of the 1550s, that is: 30 years earlier. Their first son, John, was baptised 17th February 1562 (4). He is now married to Mary, daughter of John Brond of Boxford, co Suffolk, also a clothier (1). They have been married for just under four years, having married August 4 1584 at Boxford (5). As well as John, Christian and Thomas have other children, all now in their twenties. They are Ann who is married to John Still, the Rector of Hadleigh (6), Priscilla, who has probably died by now, and was married to Thomas Lawrence (6), Margaret who is due to marry John Dorrington of London at the end of this year, 1588 (4), Christian (4) who is not married, and there is also Thomas, who is the illegitimate son of Christian's husband from a much earlier liaison, and is now in his late thirties, having graduated from Gonville and Caius College, Cambridge, twenty years ago (7). Christian's husband, Thomas, is one of the so-called Chief Inhabitants of Hadleigh. In 1574, that is 14 years ago, the accounts were presented to Thomas Alabaster, amongst others, as a Chief Inhabitant (3). In 1576, 12 years ago, Thomas Alabaster signed to help keep order in Hadleigh (3). In 1579, 9 years ago, Thomas made judicious payments of 13s 4d and 16s to avert the town of Hadleigh being indicted for not mending the highways within the town (2). Thomas is now aged about 66 years. In 1574, 14 years ago, Thomas`s Alabaster, gentleman, and others subscribed to getting the Guildhall back after the reformation (2). Thomas's eldest son, or the eldest son he bore by Christian, John, is married to Mary Brond, daughter of John Brond of Boxford, Suffolk, who was himself a clothier (1). There was a marriage settlement made upon them in the 26th year of Elizabeth I's reign.1 Eventually, John and Mary had 2 sons and 9 daughters (8). Mary herself is now 23 years old, having been baptised December 10th 1564 (5). At this time in 1588, John and Mary have one child, Ann, who is now almost 2 years old (4), and Mary is again with child, which is likely to be born at the end of this year (4). John himself is a clothier by this time; he is also an important person in Hadleigh. Looking into a crystal ball, we can see that next year, in 1589, he is going to put his signature to a decision, namely,"with the full consent of all the Chief Inhabitants of Hadleigh the bushel, commonly called the market bushel, was cut and made equal with the standard in the presence of...." ... many including John Alabaster (2). Thomas, the husband of Christian, and the father-in-law of Mary, was born about 1522 (8), probably in Worstead in Norfolk (9). He was the son of William Alabaster who was himself the brother of another Thomas (9). Thomas Alabaster, husband of Christian, has another brother living in Hadleigh, namely Roger Alabaster who is married to Bridget, the daughter of Adam Winthrop. Her brother Adam is the father of John Winthrop, born this year and destined to be a Puritan leader and the first Governor of Massachusetts, America.1 The offspring of Roger and Bridget include William Alabaster, destined to become a poet who is at the moment in his final years studying at Trinity College, Cambridge (7). Thomas's other brother, John, died in 1557, 31 years ago, in Wiggenhall St Mary, Norfolk, leaving money to Thomas and Roger in his Will (10). Thomas, himself, will die in 3 years` time (8), once again looking into a crystal ball. In his Will, made in 3 years time, he leaves land which we will presume he owns at the moment in 1588, namely, he leaves "unto Thomas Alabaster. my sonne, coppye lands in Carsey which I hold of Kings College in Cambridge. To John Alabaster, my sonne, land in Hadley. To Anne, my daughter, wife of Doctor Still, land in Hadley purchased of Stephen Upcher of Dedham, and to her children. To the children of my daughter Priscilla, late wife of Thomas Lawrence ........ to Arthur Dorrington, son of my daughter Margaret now wife of John Dorrington of London, to Roger Alabaster and his children .... to Sarah Still, Nathaniel Still, Ann Still the younger, Elizabeth Still, Mary Still, John Still, Elizabeth Shaxton, now the wife of Robert Mockett of Throwbye in Kent. To Mary Shaxton now the wife of Robert Carre of London, grocer. John Alabaster my sonne and Mary his wyfe. To John Alabaster the younger, sonne to my sonne John Alabaster, and to his sisters Anne and Mary whoe are daughters to my saide sonne. To Doctor Still a Ringe of golde of the price value of three poundes. To my daughter Anne Still, a Ringe of golde of the value of forty shillings. To Adam Wintropp a lyke ringe. Lyke rings to John Dorington and my daughter Margaret his wife. I name for my executors Doctor Still, my sonnes Thomas and John Alabaster, and my brother Roger Alabaster. Josia Speede a witness. My brother Roger Alabaster and his heirs shall pay on every Sondaye two shillings unto the churchewardens to be distributed by them amongst twelve honest aged impotent poore men and women ymediatly after evening prayer within the sowthe chappell of the churche of Hadley, twoe pence to everyone of them, exhorting them to be thankfull unto god for the same." (6) References:
PostscriptAll the facts above appear to be true with two important exceptions- both Christian and her daughter Christian, who is mentioned in passing, had died prior to 1588!!! I discovered this in 1989 when I found two entries for "Christian Alabaster" in the Burial Register of Hadleigh Church. One is dated 22 Nov 1565 and the other 29 Sept 1582. It is impossible to be sure which was the mother and which the daughter but it is likely that the mother was the one buried in 1565 since this would explain why no more children were baptised to Thomas and Christian after this date. This discovery left me feeling quite bereaved! To ContentsSt Mary's Church, Hadleigh, Suffolk
The Alabaster Family and its link with Hadleigh, Suffolk
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