Great Granddaughter of Mary Ann Alabaster
1 January 1922 - 25 December 2008
From Myrna Brandon-Paquette, (g-g-granddaughter of Mary Ann Alabaster):
I first met Nan Criddle in Manitoba about twenty-five years ago. She and her husband, Gordon Kenyon, made the 1800
km trip in their motorhome from Penticton, British Columbia, to the original family homestead at Aweme, Manitoba,
many times over the years. They attended each Criddle Family Reunion and, after the homestead obtained Heritage
Status from the province, participated in several annual reunions which the Heritage Committee promoted on the
Criddle Homestead.
I was aware of my connection to the Criddle family mainly through the book "Criddle-de-diddle-ensis", written by
Alma Criddle, a cousin of Nan's. It was only after meeting Nan that I became attracted by all aspects of researching
family history. Nan introduced me to the Alabaster family, her Great Grandmother being Mary Ann Alabaster, artist.
Soon I was researching and collecting information on not only my Criddle and Alabaster ancestors, but also on all my
other ancestors. Nan is largely responsible for creating in me this intense curiosity about those who made me who I
am.
On first meeting Nan, I came to know a caring, most interesting relative, one who shared, through the following
twenty-five years, my great love of family history. She proved most co-operative and useful to our common goals. She
no doubt was our family's master historian/archivist. She was very generous in sharing her knowledge and the
documents and photos which had been passed down to her through Mary Ann Alabaster and her son, Percy Criddle.
Because of her, and her late cousin Flora Vane Mooney, the unique Vane/Criddle family history in their possession
has been preserved and passed on to the next generation in excellent shape. I have no doubt that she would be
pleased to see her work carried further by following generations.
With great sadness, I learned of Nan's passing on Christmas Day, 2008. Perhaps she is some place where she can
see how much she was appreciated, how much all who knew her cared for her. We will miss her good nature and
smiling face.
Nan Criddle Kenyon
From Laraine Hake
Between Christmas and the New Year, I was very sad to receive the news that Nan Kenyon had died on Christmas
Day. For the last while, she had been suffering badly from Alzheimer`s so perhaps I would not want to wish her back,
but the news did spur me to dig out the letters we exchanged in the early 1990s at the very beginning of the life of
the Alabaster Society.
It was just so, so, exciting to be contacted, out of the blue, by somebody as far away as Canada who had so very
much information to offer about the Alabaster family, Branch IIC in particular. In 1992, I was already aware of the
Alabasters in New Zealand who were descended from Rev Charles Alabaster, eldest son of John Chaloner Alabaster
and his wife Sophia. In fact Molly Duffy, gt granddaughter of Rev Charles, had travelled from New Zealand to attend
the very first Alabaster Gathering in 1990. I had also heard a little about Henry of Siam, the second son of John and
Sophia, and Sir Chaloner Alabaster, the youngest son. What I had not realised was that Mary Ann Rebecca Criddle,
nee Alabaster, the aunt of the three boys who appeared to have raised them after the deaths of John and Sophia at
the ages of 33 and 32 respectively, had herself had one son, Percy. He had emigrated to Canada in 1882, taking an
inordinate quantity of letters and papers with him which had survived. Thus, Nan was the custodian of so much
information.
I decided that I would share her very first letter to me with you all. Nan and Gordon visited Hadleigh and came to one
of the Alabaster Gatherings - I believe it was the 3rd in 1993. She was a lovely lady and I am very grateful to her for
all she shared.
Sept 4 1992 Dear Laraine,
I am absolutely overwhelmed!! I really don't know where to start!! I have so much I want to tell you - and so little time
to do it as we are leaving on Tuesday for a trip back to Manitoba & will be away for six weeks to two months - so I
have much to do to get ready! However, I am going to take my papers with me & hopefully, I will get time to write to
you along the way.
I can't believe that my phone call to Irene Alabaster could result in all this excitement! I have always admired my
Great Grandmother Mary Ann Rebecca & since I got the "black box" from my brother Percy Criddle II - I have found out
so much about her - & I admire her even more. I think she was a very great lady & very much ahead of their time in
her thinking.
I received a very prompt reply to my first letter to John - & then I received a second letter from him & yesterday your
letter came. John suggested I should write to you as you are the official custodian & all information will be passed on
to him & Adrian from you.
Before I go any further, I will tell you a little about myself. My father was Stuart Criddle, son of Percy Criddle I (who
was Mary Ann Rebecca's only child,) I have one brother Percy Criddle II. The story of the Criddles is quite fantastic &
rather than try to explain it all I am going to enclose some clippings about the family. One of my cousins also wrote a
book about them which I will send to you later on - it is based on my grandfather's diary. I have a copy of this diary
also. (I started out to tell you about myself & got side-tracked!) I must be a generation ahead of you as I have just
turned 70. I am married to a very wonderful husband - Gordon, & we have 3 children......and 3 grandchildren. I was an
art teacher until I was married.
And now to the questions in John's letter and also to thank him for the pamphlet on the Alabaster gathering. I have
the "tree" made out by Grenville Alabaster which seems to be full of mistakes - he hasn't even got his cousins' names
right! I did not know anything about Henry of Siam having married ? a Siamese ! & having children by her?! I have
letters written by Palacia to Mary Ann & there is no mention of a separation - she lived until 1904, quite a while after
Henry died. Those Siamese girls are very beautiful so maybe he was following the footsteps of his cousin Percy!!
John wanted the full references to my notes on Mary Ann. I saw a book advertized in a magazine "The Dictionary of
Victorian Painters 2nd Edition 1837-1901" by Christopher Wood. The local library didn't have it but I was in Vancouver
soon afterwards & found the book in the library there. The Write-up wasn't very long but the references were:
English Female Artists (1876) by E. C. Clayton & History of the Old Water Color Society (1891) by J. L. Roget.
I don't have much information on Charles (1775-1820) but I do have some, & a large telescope is mentioned & also
some kind of invention in the manufacturing field - I believe to do with spinning. This is in some notes Percy I made
for C. Grenville - & Percy I also mentioned that J. Chaloner (father of the 3 Alabaster boys) had burned all his father's
papers when he died!
I am certainly willing to share any information I have with you. And I imagine you'll want as much as possible before
the gathering in April? Percy II has the portraits of Charles & Mary (Dearmer) & I'll either get him to have them copied
or I'll go over there to Victoria myself after we get back from Manitoba - a laser copy would probably be best.
The question of Mary Ann's birth place is puzzling. I have the copy - in her own handwriting! - of the write-up she sent
to Ellen Clayton & she says "born in Holywell Mount, Chapel House in 1805". She was getting on in years when this
was written & Percy had helped her with it. There are several letters from Clayton, one informing Mary Ann that the
book had been published. In the copy of the 1851 census which you have sent me she is listed as having been born in
London. Maybe some of you can solve the riddle......
This is one riddle that I was able to solve. Mary Ann was indeed born in Holywell Mount, Chapel House in 1805, but
this was NOT Holywell in Wales, as presumed by the author of the book, but Holywell Mount, Shoreditch. In fact,
various of Branch II lived in Chapel Street, Holywell Mount, Shoreditch at the beginning of the 19th century, and Mary
Ann Rebecca was baptised in St Leonard's, Shoreditch on February 9, 1806.
Sept 6
Had to stop then or else I would have been chasing ancestors all night ¬ able to sleep! Yesterday my daughter &
family came down for the day ....... & after entertaining grandchildren - & feeding them all, I didn't feel up to writing
letters. Today I have been getting the motor home ready for our trip east - & now I must sit down to finish this letter.
Incidentally we do a lot of travelling in our Winnebago - (27' long motor home). We have been across Canada, to
Alaska & every winter we go south to Calif - we were back to Manitoba just last year.
Your letter is so interesting! I wonder where Chaloner was when that 1851 census was taken - away at school
perhaps? He was born the year after his father took the trip to America, Henry the year before the event. I think I have
a list of where Mary Ann etc were christened - will check it out.
Janet Alabaster, widow of Austin (Charles's son) was my brother Percy's godmother. But after she died we lost track
of the New Zealand Alabasters. The picture you sent of Chas Alabaster - I have the same one but had no idea who he
was!! There are so many un-named photographs - there must be pictures of Henry & Chaloner too. I mentioned to
John that I had one of Henry's boys. It was interesting to see Chas' sons named after Chas's brothers.
I have piles of papers on the Indian Land Claims including the receipt dated London June 26 1832 - "Received of Mrs
Mary Alabaster the sum of Twenty Pounds, for two original grants of land in Upper Canada" Signed by Ann Jones. I
have always intended to write the whole affair up - but I think it is beyond me now. Maybe Adrian would do it and
include it in his book.
Before we leave tomorrow I'll get Gordon to photocopy some write-ups on the Criddles for you. There are mistakes in
them - reporters tend to make these! The facts are:- Percy went to Germany to study - he met Elise Harrer there (not
Vane) - he was good friends with her family who must have been fairly upper class - Percy was a complete snob &
would only associate with those he felt were his equal! Anyway she went back to England - no proof as to whether
she went with him or whether she followed him. She had 6 children by him - (not 5) - the first one Mabel died as a
baby. I have 5 of the birth certificates and the 3 boys Edwy, Harry & Cecil were listed as Criddles, she as Elise Criddle
formerly Harrer - & Percy Criddle. The girls are listed as Vanes (Mabel, Minnie & Isabel) - Mother Elise Vane formerly
Harrer - & father as Percy Vane. Isn't that something!! Percy went on to marry Alice Nicol in 1874 & had 8 more
children. No one knows for sure what happened & why he came to Canada. Did he marry Elise so was he a bigamist??
- or did he run out of money with such a large family to support so decided to try his luck out here??
Gordon bought a computer a couple of months ago & wants me to learn to use it so I can file all my family history on
it - but I haven't had time to do anything about it yet.
We had a family re-union in 1983 back on the old farm. The last of Criddles & Vanes - Aunt Maida Criddle died in
1982 & was buried back at the family cemetery. Many of the family attended & we decided we would have the
re-union the following year, 101 years after the family had arrived there from England. I did a Family Tree - from 1882
- 1983 of the two branches Criddles & Vanes.
== We are leaving this morning!! I will get this into the mail - muddled up as it is. Please return the two write-ups I
have marked "R".
If you want to contact me - you could write to the following
c/o Miss Mona Vane............
We will be there the last week of Sept - this was where Charlie Alabaster (son of Henry) lived. He came to Canada in
1903 - couldn't get along with his cousin Percy! He died in 1945. I'll try and find out more from Mona - I know he
received money from England - he was really well educated & spoke several languages - but he was rather a
"strange" person!
Very sincerely - but in much haste!
Ann
I am called "Nan" by the family.
We exchanged many more letters and then emails , which are not filed as carefully, in the years that followed and
Nan and Gordon visited Hadleigh and came to one of the Alabaster Gatherings - I believe it was the 3rd in 1993. She
was a lovely lady and I am very grateful to her for all she shared.
More about Nan
From: Myrna Paquette
Nan contributed so much to our knowledge of Branch IIC
Just received your email at the same time as I received another from the Manitoba Heritage Society saying that Nan
had died on Christmas Day. She contributed a lot to the family history. We will miss her. Here is the obit from the
Winnipeg Free Press, published on December 28, 2008:
(ANN) NAN KENYON (nee CRIDDLE) Born January 1, 1922 - passed away at Village by the Station, Penticton, BC
December 25, 2008 after a happy life. She is survived by her husband of 50 years, Gordon, her daughter, Carla
(Doug), son, Kerry, daughter, Sandy (Gordee), grandchildren, Eric, Katie and Sidney and brother, Percy Criddle.
Nan was born to a pioneering family in Treesbank, Manitoba, and was very involved in the Criddle family
history. She was a teacher in rural communities in Manitoba, then moved to Penticton and taught at Pen-Hi in
the 1950s until she married the love of her life. A daughter, a sister, an artist, a teacher, a wife, a mother, a
volunteer, a grandmother and most importantly, a friend.
And from Oriole Veldhuis:
I very much appreciate your sharing. Myrna and her husband are fine writers and everything she said I can agree to.
I could add to Myrna`s contribution by saying that I really got to know Nan one summer when I was working in British
Columbia and my father encouraged me to look her up in Penticton. I found her one evening. She and Gordon had only
just arrived home from Vancouver Island with newly adopted twins. I felt right at home -- my mother had twins when I
was 10, and I was quite comfortable giving some help and advice. We have been friends ever since. I will miss her.
Oriole.
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