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Laraine`s Letters Page

Oriole Veldhuis (IV) July 2009:
I am working away here on my story and found this little tidbit in a letter to Percy from Mr. Tulk who was a gentleman in Addlestone. I thought it might be of interest to the Greeves descendants and perhaps to other Alabasters.
I am wondering if Percy had left some of his mother’s painting with her when he left England – for her to keep or for her to sell. There is no further reference to them. I doubt that Percy got them but he may have.

Addlestone – Surrey, England,
March 4th, 1893
I received a card from Miss Greeves on the death of her mother, but as there was no address and I having lost it, was unable to write her. If the pictures are to be sold please ask her to let me know time and place, also which you want and prices to be given. Please let her know why I did not write & the reason for same.
Kindest regards to Mrs. C. and the rest of family.
                                                                                                                Yours J. A. Tulk

Rory Herbert (IV) 10th Sept 2009:
Thank you for forwarding the “tidbit” from Oriole Veldhuis.  What is interesting about it is the statement from Mr. J. A. Tulk, that “I received a card from Miss Greeves on the death of her mother” and the date of his letter, March 4th, 1893.
In the 1891 census Miss Greeves mother, Katherine Alabaster, was widowed and living at 28 Effingham Road, Lee, Lewisham with her daughter, Ada, so she must have died during the following two years.
As you are aware, Katherine Alabaster had three daughters; Mary Alabaster Greeves who married the Illustrated London News correspondent, Melton Prior in 1873, Katherine Elizabeth Greeves who married James Henry Cuff in 1868 and Ada Blanche Greeves who didn’t marry until 1897.  It must have been Ada, therefore, that wrote the card to Mr Tulk.  This is the Ada that her cousin, Percy Criddle, mentions in his diaries:

“May 11, 1876 …… called on the Greeves who were fairly well (bar uncle) - Ada with her hair down her back - & a fringe (the fashion now) looking pretty.”
“Sep 16, 1876 - Ada Greeves was to have come to Addlestone today but was prevented by wet.”
“Sep 19, 1876 - ….. Ada Greeves came down for a few days – looks pretty enough – but there are signs of flour on her face and – paint!!”
“Jul 16, 1877 The Mum is at Hammersmith to mind Aunt Kate while Ada is at Sea looking after Polly whose husband Mel Prior is very ill at Schumla I believe.”
“Apr 11, 1878 - Am going to give Ada Greeves some singing lessons.”
“Apr 14, 1878 - Gave Ada Greeves a singing lesson this afternoon - her voice is full of bad tricks & vices but sweet -& I shall very likely do something with it.”
Katherine Cuff, nee Greeves
(Diary entries courtesy of Myrna Paquette and Oriole Veldhuis).

It seems that neither Mary nor Ada Greeves had children (Ada didn’t marry until the age of 50) so the living descendents of Katherine Alabaster are all via the marriage of Katherine Elizabeth Greeves to James Henry Cuff in 1868.  Their eldest son, Archibald William, was my great-grandfather.  He was educated at St. John’s College, Cambridge and was a Medical Officer with the Royal Artillery during the First World War. 

The following is an extract from The London Gazette dated 11th November 1914;
“Royal Field Artillery, 3rd West Riding Brigade; Surgeon-Captain Archibald W. Cuff, M.B., to be Surgeon-Major.  Dated 8th September, 1914.”

This photo (left) of Katherine Alabaster’s daughter, Katherine Greeves, was taken in Manchester, probably in the 1870’s shortly after her marriage to James Henry Cuff.
(later):
I just came across the attached photo of Katherine Elizabeth Cuff (nee Greeves)’ daughter, Violet Dearmer Cuff. It has made me wonder whether the last one I sent you was, indeed, of Katherine as the images are so similar that it may, in fact, have been of her daughter, Violet Dearmer Cuff (b. 1870).
The main reason I thought it was of Katherine is that it was taken in Manchester which is where the Cuff family had their bottling business but Violet was living in Altrincham in 1891 so it could equally well be of her.
Interesting that Violet’s middle name was Dearmer, presumably after her great-grandmother. She used the name for one of her own daughters, Hilda Dearmer Cawley.

(Laraine – replying):
Thank you for the information above and for the excellent photograph you sent of Katherine Cuff, nee Greeves.

I have searched for a suitable death for Katherine Greeves nee Alabaster.  How about this one?

Katherine GreevesDeaths - Dec 1892    Greeves Katharine (age) 76  Lewisham

This refers to the registration district of Lewisham and could have been anytime between Oct and Dec 1892......... I notice that the address on the 1891 census was Lewisham......  I think that is confirmation!  The 76 refers to the apparent age of Katharine at death which, while not exact to a birth in 1814 would only be what the person who registered the death said at the time. In fact, this is the only Kath............. Greeves death that is registered in England.

Myrna Pacquette (IV) 12 Dec 2009
Here is a bit more that I found in Percy’s diary.

Saturday, Feb 4, 1893 – Got news from Ada this morning that my Aunt Kate is dead at last after a long illness and years of helplessness.  The last of the older members of my Mother’s family gone.  Many a bright picture of my young life had her for its frame – and Hammersmith will ever bring her memory vividly before me.  She died on December 7th, 1892.

Tuesday, Nov 26, 1907 ........................letter from Jenny Clark 10th, with a cutting from Standard – Polly [Mary Alabaster Prior nee Greeves] killed by a damned tram car on afternoon of 7th.  Am greatly distressed about it – Poor Polly – and poor Melton – he’d lately lost his sister too from Cancer – however – Polly didn’t suffer – though she didn’t die for some hours after the accident – unconscious from the first.

Thursday, Oct 1, 1908 - 8.30 AM - ............ A letter from Ada - Had a bad tumble through fainting (?) - Forced in a bit of skull and is only now getting over the affair.  Melton Prior married again on Sept 14 - Just about 10 mos. after Polly’s death - Well - I guess it was the wisest thing for him to do - provided the lady’s all right- and I shall write and congratulate him.  Of course Ada feels offended.

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I do think that these emails taken together make particularly interesting reading. Mary Ann Rebecca Criddle, mother of Percy, and Katherine Greeves, mother of Mary Ann (Polly), Katherine Elizabeth and Ada, were the two daughters of Charles and Mary Dearmer who survived to adulthood. Myrna and Oriole are descendants of Percy whilst Rory is the gt grandson of Katherine.

 

Frederick AlabasterJenny Osborne (IIA) 13th September 2009:
I thought you may like these two records I have found for Frederick Alabaster and his son Edwin Alabaster.

 
 

Frederick Alabaster (right), Jenny’s grandfather, was the son of Edwin Alabaster, brother of my own great grandfather. This shows Frederick in uniform from WWI.
Edwin James Alabaster, Frederick`s son, died in Burma 15 Feb 1944.

 

 

Edwin James Alabaster (left) was Frederick’s son. He served in the Wiltshire Regiment in WWII and died in Burma on 15 February 1944.

 

 

 

 Carol Osborne (IIA) 18th October 2009:
Thought I’d let you know that we’ve just booked flights to Thailand for Dec 27th and hope to see Ginny and family in Chiang Mai to celebrate New Year!!! So excited, especially to see Laurie again. Of course the last time we went we didn’t know the family there even existed – you brought all that to our attention!

Carol is my own third cousin – my gt grandfather, Thomas, was the brother of her gt grandfather, Edwin, although we have only met in the last couple of years. Carol’s son, Laurie, lives and works in Thailand and got to know his distant cousins, Marisa and Francesco Bird (sons of Virginia (Ginny) Bird) – they are actually 6th cousins once removed, sharing 5 x gt grandparents, Robert and Ann Mison (as do all members of Branch II) Read about Carol’s experience of New Year in Thailand elsewhere in this Chronicle!
Oddly, both Jenny and Carol are gt granddaughters of Edwin Alabaster, but the name Osborne is that of their husbands – no known connection!

Pearl Teasdale (IV) 31st October 2009:
Thank you so much for sending the Occasional Monograph No. 3. I was delighted to receive it on Tuesday (27th Oct) and I immediately read it from cover to cover.
I am absolutely overwhelmed at being part of the Alabaster family - what a wonderful heritage.  So many of our ancestors led such interesting lives (although they may not have thought so at the time) and it was a real joy for me to read Henry Alabaster's letters and those of some of the other members of his family.  John Alabaster put everything together so well and I was right there in Siam with Henry.  Having had the privilege to visit Bangkok and the surrounding area, I was continually being transported back to Thailand and I could well understand how the heat troubled Palacia.

This email from Pearl echoes the sentiments of many of our members who thoroughly enjoyed the book that John Stammers Alabaster produced. Thank you, John!

Bethnal Green War Memorials, 1st November 2009:
There is a small web site called bethnalgreenwarmemorials.com and thought you might be interested to note that a William Alabaster is listed. These photos refer to two William Alabasters on war memorials in Bethnal Green , although they could refer to the one man.
The first is a copy of the page from the Roll of Honour , this gives his address and regiment. The second photograph (immediately below it) is from tablets that were originally part of the war memorial at St Thomas`s Church, Bethnal Green: they were relocated to St Peter`s Church when these two parishes were joined.

William Alabaster named in Bethnal Green Library Roll of Honour

War Memorial, Bethnal Green

From UK Soldiers who Died in the Great War:

William Alabaster, born Shoreditch, Residence Sun St., Death date 26 August 1918. Enlistment: Hackney Road, Rank Private, Regiment: London Regiment Battalion 7th (City of London) Battalion No. 350550. Died of wounds.

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This William was the son of John and Susan Alabaster (nee Gibbs), branch IIIB

We also have photographs, one (below) taken by Ray Williamson in 2008 of a memorial to William on his parents’ grave in Manor Park Cemetery, London; the other (below right), which shows the inscription clearly, is of much earlier vintage.

 

 

Alabaster grave, Manor Park Cemetery, London

I think it is likely that the two references from the Bethnal Green website do refer to the same William Alabaster but it is difficult to be certain.

 

William Alabaster memorial, Manor Park Cemetery

 

Sadly, another soldier, William Ernest Alabaster, died on 28 August 1918, just two days later. He was the son of William Joseph and Amelia Elizabeth Alabaster (nee Gilbert), branch IV.

 

From Exmouth Herald, 6 November 2009:
“Blooming marvellous win for Budleigh Salterton woman
“06 November 2009
“The green-fingered skills of Kathy Alabaster were recognised by Budleigh in Bloom when she was presented with Kings Nurseries vouchers worth £100 for her efforts scooping the top prize in the town's gardens competition.”

Does anybody identify this green fingered Alabaster?

Murray Williamson (I) 2nd Dec 2009:
Many thanks for sending me the extract from the 1871 Rochford census. Very kind of you! I continue to read the Chronicle with interest, and marvel at the enregy and dedication which you and the team display.
As it happens, I had seen the item and like you, puzzled over what James was doing in Rochford in 1871. The Census is correct in calling him a widower, and the age is right. At that time, James was no longer member for Southern Goldfields, having omitted to stand for re-election in November 1869, but I have no indication of his movements thereafter until September 1871 when he remarried in Sydney. This is how I worked it out in my Rodd Family History:
"As we have seen, James died in 1862 and thereafter his widow Ann and youngest daughter Mary travelled to Australia in 1863. She appears not to have travelled on to New Zealand with Mary and husband Captain Frederick Denham Gibson following their marriage in Goulburn. The passenger list for Captain Gibson’s ship the “Auckland” on arrival in Auckland on 27 December 1863 listed him and his new wife, but did not include a Mrs Rodd. Just how and when Ann returned to England is not known.
The 1871 census has Ann Rodd, widow, an annuitant, born Romford Essex, living at 15 South Street Rochford. Also living there at the time was James Rodd, widower, a merchant, aged 40 born Rayleigh Essex. These are clearly the details of Ann and her oldest son James. James must have returned from Australia, possibly for a short visit, at that time. We know he has back in Australia late in 1871. Ann’s son Alfred and family were living close by, at 18 South Street.
Ann Rodd died in Chelmsford, Essex, in 1879 of "paralysis and softening of the spine". Presumably she was living with relatives then - the informant was C A Rodd, daughter in law, New London Rd, Chelmsford. This must have been Caroline, the wife of Alfred Rodd, the only one of Ann’s sons who was still living in England at the time.
The Rayleigh churchyard still has the Rodd tombstone. It was in fair condition when Judy and I saw it first in 1999, but by 2002 (when we revisited it with Peter and Tan) it had deteriorated quite a bit.
The inscriptions on the tombstone read as follows:

IN MEMORY OF JAMES RODD
B 1803 D 1862
ANNE ALABASTER HIS WIFE
B 1800 D 1879
THE FOLLOWING ARE HIS CHILDREN
ANNE ALABASTER B 1826 D 1836
SARAH FOX wife of the late Rev W Rumann B 1827 D 1856
JOHN FOX B 1830 D 1849
HENRIETTA MARIA B 1833 D 1838
WILLIAM B 1839 D 1839
ALFRED who lies in Rochford Churchyard B 18?. d 1872
THIS TOMB IS PLACED THERE BY THEIR BROTHER

On the side of the tomb is the inscription:

WILLIAM RODD 1758-1833
HENRIETTA MARIE HIS WIFE B 1766 D 1814
JOHN THEIR SON B 1805 D 1842
Rodd Family Tombstone, Rayleigh 1999
Rodd Family tombstone, Rayleigh Churchyard in 1999

So who was this brother who erected the tombstone? Whoever it was must have been still alive after 1879 (the most recent date on the stone). It can only have been one of the boys who came to Australia - James, George Palmer or Ephraim Rodd – since all the sons who stayed in England were dead by 1879.
I suspect that it was James Rodd who was responsible for the tombstone. He made quite a bit of money in real estate in Sydney in the 1880s. He may well have returned to England at some stage.”
I note that the tombstone does not mention all his children - it excludes the four who emigrated. So I assume that the tombstone refers to those who are buried at Rayleigh. 
As you point out, the 1871 census extract also shows that Alfred Rodd, the only son of James and Ann who stayed in England, was living in Rochford at the time. He and his family were living there at least since 1864. He died in 1872. No doubt Ann, his mother, moved to Rochford to be near him after her husband James' death. Alfred's wife Caroline (Newson) and children later moved to Chelmsford and it was Caroline who was shown as informant on Ann's death certificate in 1879. It seems likely that Ann would have moved with Caroline and her children.  I note that Ann's birthplace is given as Romford, Essex, c 1790,  so that gives some indication of the whereabouts of her parents before they took over the lease of the Half Moon Pub at Rayleigh.

It is fascinating to get more insight into Branch I. This gives us more information about the family of Ann Rodd (nee Alabaster) about whom Murray wrote in Chronicle 18. He wrote about "The Gibson Girls" who contributed considerably to education in New Zealand during the 19th and 20th centuries. This can be read on the Alabaster website at www.alabaster.org.uk/chron18.htm . There is more to follow from Murray about this family in the next Chronicle.  

Carolyn de Graaf – New Zealand 7th December 2009:
I am interested in whom I should contact in relation to my gt grand mother Mary Ann Alabaster born 13 01 18 63 in Dunedin, Otago, New Zealand and died 21 08 1959 in Auckland, New Zealand. She was the daughter of Daniel Alabaster, and in fact she had 5 children, one being my grandfather whom she married on 14 09 1880.

I replied that I would do my best to help and received the following information:

This is what I know -
1. Joseph Alfred Mchugh was born in 1856 in Sandridge, Melbourne, Victoria Australia.  He married Mary Ann Alabaster  9 February 1880 in Wellington, New Zealand.  She was born 13 January 1863 in Dunedin, New Zealand and died 21 August 1959 in Auckland, New Zealand.
She is buried at the Waikumete Cemetery, Auckland - Plot- Protestant Lawn B Row, Plot 8 under the name of Coveney.
Child of Joseph Mchugh & Mary Alabaster is Joseph Alfred Mchugh, born 14 September 1880 in Christchurch, New Zealand and died 16 May 1964 in Lower Hutt, Wellington.
Joseph Alfred Mchugh was my grandfather (he had 5 children in his first marriage, his first wife died and he married my grandmother and had another three children = 8 children in all, 2 still living) - My information comes from my grandfather`s marriage and birth certificates and the McHugh family tree. 
I was interested to note that Joseph snr was the son of a William Mchugh born 1809 in Cork, Ireland and died 19 March 1875. He was also a Sea Captain sailing his own ship.
But wait there is more –
2. Mary Ann Alabaster went on to marry a Mr Heard in/on about 1881, there were three children -  
a. Daniel Albert Heard, born 7 October 1888, in Dunedin, New Zealand and died 13 December 1973 in Auckland (known by us as Uncle Dan);
b. Mabel Ann Heard, Born 8 April 1882/1866, in Dunedin;
c. William John Sandy Heard, born 9 April 1883, Dunedin, New Zealand.
3. Mary Ann Alabaster married Gerald Edward Coveney on 24 December 1894.
Florance Coveney was born 1 February 1896 at Dannevirke, Hawkes Bay, New Zealand.
It would be nice to see Mary`s family acknowledged by the Alabaster Society.   What do I need to do to have that happen?

As I could deduce that Carolyn was a member of Branch IV, being descended from Captain Daniel Alabaster who was born in Gt Yarmouth in 1836, I put her in touch with Kelley Videbeck who is our all knowledgeable New Zealand member on Branch IV.

Kelley Videbeck (IV) 8th December 2009: 
Ah, Laraine, you've done it again - thank you!  I have so little info on this branch of our family, but my Mum has memories of Carolyn's Gt Grandmother Mary Ann (they called her Aunty Polly & remember her as a busy ancient little lady with black lace up boots - they used to visit her here in Auckland in the 50's when they lived here).  I have sent a message straight off to Carolyn, and sooo hoping she may have some old photographs as I have never seen one of Polly.  The funny thing is I finally sat down & read through the latest chronicle yesterday and it had put me back in mind of all the wonderful info I learned earlier this year about our Isabella Fenwick, Captain Dan's straying wife.  I'm not sure if I ever came back to you after I received her marriage and death certificates.
Anyway, it makes for an intriguing tale as we learned that she married John Halloa bigamously at a place called Norsewood (lower Nth Island) in 1884, calling herself a widow at the time.  John was a native of Quebec, and I suspect they lived in Gisborne (mid Nth Island, East Coast).
However Isabella died in Auckland in 1891 aged 49, of typhoid & pneumonia, and I have been to where she is buried but her grave is unmarked so I will need to return with some more info from the cemetery to find her for sure.
I think she may have been in Auckland because her daughter was here so even more reason to be excited about a new cousin on Mary Ann's line.
All these years I have wondered what became of Isabella and never would have suspected she was right here in Auckland all along!
I have now managed to trace her origins in Scotland since acquiring her marriage certificate, which has been a huge breakthrough, so it turns out that her bigamous marriage was the key to that!

Fantastic information from Kelley as ever; ...and perhaps this will remind her to send me further details!

Shirley & Bob Elms - Australia 1 January 2010:
I am a great great grandaughter of Roger Alabaster, born 1791 in  Ipswich, and Margaret Hedges, through their daughter Harriet Mary Alabaster.     I am not interested in tracing all the family tree but would very much like to know the names of all the children of  Roger Alabaster and Margaret Hedges and also the names of both Roger's and Margaret’s  parents.  Would you be able to help me out with this information or tell me how I can find it.  I have a sub to Ancestry.com but its resources are limited.  I live in Australia.

I replied with the following information:
I am very happy to share the information that you want with you but I would be interested to know from which of Harriet Mary Alabaster's children you are descended and any further information you are willing to share.  One of our members is descended from George Ernest Masters, youngest son (I think of Harriet Mary).  George was their 3 x gt grandfather.

But to get back to the information you wanted:
The children of Roger Alabaster and Margaret Hedges were:
Margaret Ann Alabaster b.1815
Leatitia Sarah Alabaster b. 1818  d.1861
Harriette Mary Alabaster b. 1820
Alfred John Alabaster b. 1821  d 1897
Sarah Shaw Alabaster b.  1823
William Henry Alabaster b. 1825 d. 1844
Walter Goddard Alabaster b. 1827  d. 1888
Robert Hedges Alabaster  b. 1830 d 1898  

The parents of Roger Alabaster were John Alabaster and Deborah Hines;
the father of Margaret Hedges was Nathaniel Hedges.
 I hope this helps you!!!

I have just realised that you have contacted me through the Guild of One Name Studies...........have you seen the Alabaster Society Website at www.alabaster.org.uk
There are some members of the Alabaster Society descended from both Walter Goddard and Robert Hedges Alabaster as well as Harriette Mary, as mentioned above.  LH

2nd Jan 2010:
Thank you so much for getting back to me so promptly with such useful information.  I had looked at the Alabaster Society website and must confess to being rather overwhelmed.  I am not very adept at this business of genealogy.  In fact I was hoping to just trace back my grandparents etc without bothering too much about all the children involved. 
You may be interested to know that Harriet Mary Alabaster married John Searle Masters whose daughter Harriet Ann Masters married Edward Henry Cox, a pork butcher born in St. Luke in 1846.  He was my mother's grandfather so I guess that makes him my maternal great grandfather. 
My husband and I live in Australia so unfortunately we would be unable to meet up with others of the clan in the UK.  I have been back to the UK a few times but now feel that the long plane trip with all the annoying security issues makes it very unlikely that I will get there again, bearing in mind that I am in my seventies!
Once again thank you for your assistance and I would be happy to supply any other information which may be of interest. I would be interested to know of other decendents of Harriet Mary Alabaster who may be closely related to me.
 

Greg Harrison (IV) 22nd Jan 2010:
When I was in the library the other day taking advantage of their free ancestry.com membership, I found some Alabaster information not relevant to my branch and thought perhaps it may be useful to another member of our happy group.
On 21 Apr 1906, Horace E. Alabaster, age 19 and unmarried arrived at the port of St. John, New Brunswick from Liverpool aboard the ship Lake Erie. The ship’s purser recorded Horace’s place of birth as Essex and his destination in Canada as Toronto, Ontario. His occupation was listed as general labourer.
On 3 Sep 1926 Horace Alabaster is now 38 and returned to Liverpool aboard the CP Ship Montcalm. His home address is listed as 53 Charles Street, Toronto. His address in England is shown as care of his mother, Mrs. C. Alabaster, 208 Fleming Rd., Lloyd’s Park, Walthamstow.
On 25 Sep 1926 Horace returned to Canada aboard the Montclare. If the crossing took a week, that means poor Horace had only about 15 days to visit his mother after being away for 20 years.
The information available now via the internet is so amazing. This Horace Edmund Alabaster was the younger brother of my grandmother, Adeline Bertha Alabaster. I had been looking for any information relating to him for the past 20 years until I was contacted by his granddaughter, Chris Drake from Canada last summer.

Kevin Mason - this was found on an online forum:
Hello Listeners,
I am asking for help to connect 2 families. I have tried to join them - and the only result is sheer frustration.
To explain. I am tracing my wife's and my own family trees. Both of our ancestor's are from Bethnal Green, Shoreditch and the surrounding area.
The family connecting my wife to the Alabaster family is Emma Jarman who married Henry Alabaster (a butcher) in 1850.
My family is connected through 2 sisters who married 2 brothers a) Martha Agass married James Alabaster in 1911 and b) Francis Agass married John Alabaster in 1907.
What I cannot find and want to work out is the connection between Henry Alabaster (the Butcher) and the 2 brothers John and James.
If any of you Alabasters out there like a little quiz - here is one for you.

I responded and said that I would be likely to be able to help…

25 Jan 2010:  
Thank you for answering my query.  Are you able to help re the question below.  I find it absolutely amazing that my wife’s family and mine could have a connection, all be it by marriage.  I have investigated both my wife’s and my family history for a few years. 

I replied:
Yes, yes!  I am able to tell you how you and your wife are related!!! (other than by marriage!) ...........  at least, I can tell you how John and James are related to Henry - and it is very distant! ......... but cannot tell you the precise degree of cousinship between you and your wife until you let me know your own descent from the Alabaster family, which I do very much hope you will!

Briefly, ............  Henry is part of Branch IIB while John and James are IIIB  - these are just artificial labels we gave to the family to make things a bit easier, splitting it in about the 17th century.  Their common ancestors are William Alabaster and Ann Clark who married in Claydon, Suffolk on 26th November 1682.  Henry was the 3 x gt grandson of William and Ann. descended from their eldest son William (1689-1768) whereas John and James were the 5 x gt grandsons of William and Ann, descended from a younger son, Benjamin (1697-1784) - both very long-lived boys!  Henry then, is the 4th cousin twice removed of John and James! 
Just noticed - I don't have a record of any children for Henry and Emma..........this is interesting!  Please do tell me how your wife is descended from them.  It would be great if you would share information with me.

Kevin replied:
Neither of us is related to the Alabaster family by blood, but just by marriage (so far).  Emma Jarman, who married Henry Alabaster in 1850 was my wife’s g-g-grandfather’s sister.  (You are right – there was no children from this union).
The mother of the Agass sisters, who married the Alabaster brothers at the turn of the last century, is a Mumford and is my Gt grandfather’s sister.

If there are any Alabasters reading this who are also descended from the Agass sisters and would like to know more about their ancestors, I will happily put them in touch with their “cousin” Kevin!

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Three Alabaster Grandsons Mentioned in Despatches

Captain (temp) Herbert S. Alabaster Mentioned in Despatches

Captain Herbert Sidney AlabasterHerbert Sidney Alabaster (1908-1956) was the father of Tricia Dyer (IIA). She says that she does not know the exact details of why he was Mentioned in Despatches but she does know that he was awarded the Oakleaf.

He was leading a Company of the Pioneer Corps of the British Army on the Rhine, building and repairing bridges at the time.
Like my father, Herbert was a grandson of Thomas Alabaster and Cordelia nee Jolly (IIA).

Alfred Henry Oram

I also received an email from my cousin, Barry, whose father Alfred Henry Oram (1915-1997) was my father’s brother, telling me that he, too, was Mentioned in Despatches.

By the King`s Order the name of Sergeant A. H. Oram, Royal Army Ordnance Corps, was published in the London Gazette on 23rd May 1946 as mentioned in a Despatch for distinguished service.

Alfred Henry Oram

 

Barry was under the impression that this was connected with the campaign in Italy; this does not seem to tie up with the date of 1946. but it is possible that the publication of these notifications in the London Gazette did not happen until later.

Leslie Victor Oram
Leslie Victor Oram

My own father, Leslie Victor Oram (1919-2008), brother of Alfred, was also Mentioned in Despatches. I am more fortunate in that after his death, I found his Royal Air Force Service and Release Book amongst his belongings. In the centre of that is included a “Brief statement of any special aptitudes or qualities…”

This includes the words:
He was awarded a Mention in Despatches in Dec. 1944 for particularly praiseworthy work in connection with vitally important and secret despatches, driving long distances nightly, where lateness of absenteeism would have rendered bombing missions inoperable.

I know that he was involved in the delivery of radar equipment to various bases, absolutely top secret at that time, and was not allowed to be posted abroad, actually being told when on embarkation leave that he would have to remain in the UK much to the relief of my mother!

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Top Royal Navy Officer visits the Isle of Man Rear-Admiral Martin Alabaster (IIIB)

Published online at 30/10/2009 19:35:59   http://royalnavy.mod.uk  
Pictured: Rear Admiral Martin Alabaster, from royalnavy.mod.uk

The only British admiral north of the M4 has made a courtesy call to the Isle of Man, to meet the lieutenant governor.  

Rear Admiral Martin Alabaster is based at Faslane and flew into the island from Glasgow for a short visit.

It was the second time he had been here, the first having been almost 30 years ago.

But he says after taking command of the Navy in Scotland, Northern England and Northern Ireland, it was important to visit again.

Martin is a cousin of some of our members in Branch IIIB

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